This site is to remember our inspiring father John O'Connor and lovely mother Pat

John was born on June 10, 1918

He was much loved and respected and will always be remembered by his friends and family.

Battling past many obstacles to be commissioned as an Royal Artillery Officer in WWII...just before the outbreak of war he had met Pat and she too served in the Artillery. They were a real team act, bringing up 5 children while John first made childrens toys , then created a Tailoring business and then, later, became an ordained Priest, retiring as Vicar of Ringwood in Hampshire .

His gifts to us are best expressed in his favourite poem "IF" by Rudyard Kipling shown here in "Thoughts"...

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Thoughts

If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies, Or being hated, don’t give way to hating, And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise: If you can dream—and not make dreams your master; If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim; If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the same; If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken, And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools: If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breathe a word about your loss; If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’ If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch, If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you, If all men count with you, but none too much; If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run, Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it, And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son! Share this text ...? Twitter Twitter Pinterest Pinterest Source: A Choice of Kipling's Verse (1943)
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7th June 2015